Here’s an Inconvenience describing how attachment can lead to devastating feelings of abandonment.
Note that the writer tells the reader that maximum attachment is encouraged because it can lead to feelings of maximum abandonment.
She clearly delineates the emotions she strives to evoke via abandonment: pain, emotional discomfort, etc.
She likens attachment to a drug; this implies that the attachment addict requires every-increasing doses.
The Symptomatology of Abandonment
manifests in irritation, aches, pains, collapse,
mental and emotional discomfort.
It is correct to assert that we seek the narcotic of attachment
and then experience the maximum irritation
with maximum abandonment